My god, why have we never been introduced before this? via Bijou's Style Miss Unkon

I am back and I am back with more time up my sleeve. I have finished college (yay) and I have applied for more internet speed (yay#2). I have been thinking lately after browsing my Oyster mag. There was a feature in it with a blogger. She spoke of how she wanted to make her blog different from the rest. This is something I worry about every day. I want this blog to be original, I want it to be down to earth, authentic and true. However isn't that what we all want? Don't we all wish that there would be someone thousands of miles/kilometres away that is talking about our blog to a friend?

What makes a blog different? Is it the beauty and great style of the creator, like rumi of Fashion Toast or Natalie from Natalie Off Duty? Is it their links with the fashion industry and the update inside information? Is it the poetic and visually beautiful blogs that inspire us with beautiful quotes and pictures? Or perhaps it is the girl (tweens also -_-) that have been brought up in a wealthy family who just cannot help but to show off their new LV luggage, or their Chanel clogs?

I am still trying to find myself. My interests spread far and beyond. I could blog about anything from food to travel, fashion to religion. That is just me. I don't have money, I do not go out for coffees 4 days a week with the ladies looking fine in my designer, I do not have my nails done, I do not have healthy beautiful hair. My competitive nature totally rips me apart. I want it all, but I know I cannot. I want the recognition, I want the lifestyle, I think I am losing it.

Damn you blogging world, damn you!


  1. great post, the first dress is exquisite.x

  2. I don't have words... Amazing, really amazing pictures!!!! Xoxo

  3. Ooooooh such amazing photos!

  4. Loving the photos!

    A standout and well known blog is something i aspire, don't know if i'm ever going to get there, but it's a fun journey anyway :)

    xx miss anonymous.

  5. super gorgeous photos, love thpastels, flowers and pretty effects <3 and ohh is so agree with you! i don not have like a 'vision' for my blog at all, and it's not really very unique....

  6. you just be who are. and this is great post. im slowly going throu your blog this summer. Rumi has been doin it for years like sea of shoes etc.
    your blog is a really calming place to stay.
    Hope you're having a good weekend miss.


  7. oh the pink bra and knickers are so divine!
    ahh...i bought that oyster yesterday! i loved that interview too...hahaha.

  8. your blog is so cool!
    i love it!
    i follow you, will you follow me?


  9. I love these pictures, especially the flower halo!


  10. Thanks for sharing these amazing pictures! oh, they are just perfect :)
    I love this post and your thoughts about blogs.
    I truly love your blog, I always find something great here everytime I check it out!
    But I have the exact same feeling sometimes :)
    Have a great weekend!

  11. I'm in love with all the photos!

  12. these photos are magical!! they are really beautiful!


  13. i think we all feel like we want our blogs to be original, myself included! but the thing is, as chuck palahniuk said, "Nothing of me is original. I am the combined effort of everybody I've ever known." That quote practically speaks for everyone! What really makes a blog original is posting what YOU like, and I think you've done just that :) amazing post :D x

  14. such a good lookbook! gorgeous post, love your blog (:

    come visit mine sometime?



  15. congrats on finishing! :D these images are absolutely stunning, dreamy and ethereal! wonderful! :D

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  16. SO GORGEOUS. i'm saving them all for inspiration. and i know what you mean about wanting your blog to be original and being competitive...drives me crazy sometimes as well, so i'm just settling with whatever comes naturally to me.

  17. think i've already commented, but seriously oh so gorgeous ♥
    just right click 'n saved all of them haah x

  18. woo go the killer cheap jewelery! haah and thankyou lovely, i just use a cannon powershot digital camera (not sure what model) which i bought almost 2 years go for about $150! and if i ever do edit my photos i only use the free windows picture mnager or whatever it's called :)

  19. thank u for crediting my blog as the source, glad it inspired u :)



  20. such a fresh blog... its so light and pretty.

    great post!

  21. just read this. i have the exact same conflict with you. i live like ... a hobo lifestyle in comparison to all those other great fashion bloggers' lives... hmmmmmm. anyway. great post & photos.

    <33 [v] hobovogue


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